Prince Charming

So I am a single heterosexual woman. I am single by choice, although I don't exactly have a line of suitors knocking down my door either! I've never been someone to just easily date people, actually to even find people I'm somewhat interested in is hard work...I have a list of qualities I'm interested in that but its not even that, I'd compromise, and I have in the past (which now means there are a few less things I'd compromise on) but its that initial attraction to someone....that thought of "Oh he's cute" followed at some stage by something like, "Oh he's really lovely" and eventually to be followed by, "Oh on earth to get him to ask me out" (or "Am I brave enough to ask him out" some situations I might be able to).

But I'd love a guy that was pretty laid back but intelligent, reasonable amount of organisation but able to be spontaneous without flipping out (important for my own health issues and to balance out my own stuff), someone who is taller than me (I am of average height but I really want someone taller than me), someone who can carry me across the threshhold, someone who is musical in some way, someone who is interested in the beach and ideally surfing (why because I am and I plan to spend a lot of time in the waves and it'd be nice to do it together), some one who is intelligent (this is a must) i'm very intolerant of stupid people and so I need someone that can match me and call me to account for my own crap, in a kind and gentle way. Not like someone who MUST be right but someone who can engage in a reasonable conversation without having to resort to the dummies guides to [insert topic here] (although it'd be endearing to see him do it on random topics that he plans to master). I want someone who is accepting of the girls I help and is as welcoming of them into my/our life as I am with them currently. I want all those girls to have a good male presence in him, someone that they can talk to if I'm not arround. Ultimately, I want someone who'll treat me like a princess and think I'm amazing and that they're lucky to date me. I don't want them to ignore my faults or whatever, I don't want to be put on a pedestool, but I do wnat to be the girl that they never want to let another guy have (except for God and I really want him to be a Christian)....I want him to WANT me and not just to use me, abuse me and throw me to the side like garabage, but treasure me as his most prized earthly posession.

I'm not the most beautiful girl, I'm just not, I get that and I'm okay with that. I'm not entirely unfortunate looking either for which I'm also thankful. But there is a song by Bruno Mars - Just the way you are and I want any future husband of mine to find this song and want to play it for me (or sing it to me if he can sing) and MEAN IT. I want to know that while all the inside stuff is important and valuable that the outside stuff is important too and he's just as taken with the outside me as he is with the inside me!

Here is the song...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LjhCEhWiKXk

Bruno Mars - Just the way you are
Oh, her eyes, her eyes, make the stars look like they're not shining
Her hair, her hair, falls perfectly without her trying 
She's so beautiful, and I tell her every day

Yeah, I know, I know, when I compliment her she won't believe me
And it's so, it's so, sad to think that she don't see what I see
But every time she asks me do I look ok, I say

When I see your face, there's not a thing that I would change
Cause you're amazing, just the way you are
And when you smile, the whole world stops and stares for a while
Because girl you're amazing, just the way you are(yeah)

Her lips, her lips, I could kiss them all day if she let me
Her laugh, her laugh, she hates but I think it's so sexy
She's so beautiful, and I tell her every day

Oh, you know, you know, you know, I'd never ask you to change
If perfect's what you're searching for then just stay the same
So, don't even bother asking if you look ok
You know I'll say

When I see your face, there's not a thing that I would change
Cause you're amazing, just the way you are
And when you smile, the whole world stops and stares for a while
Because girl you're amazing, just the way you are
The way you are, the way you are
Girl you're amazing, just the way you are

When I see your face, there's not a thing that I would change
Cause you're amazing, just the way you are
And when you smile, the whole world stops and stares for a while
Cause girl you're amazing, just the way you are. Yeah